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So, Martin “#2” Kessman is suing White Castle for discriminating against his 290-pound frame, claiming that, according to the Americans with Disabilities Act, he is having his civil rights violated. I haven’t seen one word yet about WHAT his disability is. If Mr. Kessman is claiming that his sole disability is his weight and the accompanying morbid obesity, then I shake my head in utter disappointment. In a world where people must deal with real disabilities, whether they be physical, mental or processing difficulties, how can a man who has chosen to eat his way into his condition have the nerve to claim a civil rights violation.
Kessman claims, “The Americans with Disabilities Act is applicable – not only to me, but to pregnant women and to handicapped people. I just want to sit down like a normal person.”
Did he really compare himself, a man that as far as we know is simply overweight, to a pregnant woman or to handicapped people? Really? (and Marty? are you saying that handicapped people aren’t normal? Careful Buddy.)
He says that he doesn’t like that he can’t fit into the booths of the White Castle he used to go to (more on that in a second). He went on to say that not being able to sit in the booths was “extremely embarrassing [especially] to have to experience in front of a restaurant full of customers.” He continues by saying that when he did try to squeeze into a larger seating area, he slammed his knee into one of the metal posts under the table and hurt himself.
Now, this is a man who has been eating White Castle burgers for over 50 years. Supposedly he has been eating at the same White Castle since 1959. I would imagine that back then, as a young man, he probably fit just fine into the booth style seating. Wasn’t there some point in his life when he realized that maybe, just maybe the booths were getting a little tight?
But I want to get back to this quote from the New York Post, “I just want to sit down like a normal person.”
This quote, or rather the intention of this quote is what is wrong with America right now. When noticing that he was pushing beyond the maximum capacity of the booths, he could have taken different steps to remedy the situation. Asking White Castle to remodel their restaurant is NOT one of them. Anybody who reads this blog knows what Marty could have done. But instead of taking responsibility for his lifetime of poor eating habits, he decided that White Caste had to accommodate him. I don’t buy it for a minute that he was concerned for pregnant women or those with true handicaps.
I am a firm,FIRM believer that society as a whole should make an effort to accommodate those members that truly are disabled. It is our way of showing that we value life, all life. But when jackasses like Marty make a mockery of that compassion because they are lazy, I really get upset. It cheapens the compassion shown to my baby girl; compassion that I am so grateful for.
My daughter Brooke works extremely hard to fit herself into the world around her. To quote an amazing parent, she is a hair dryer kid in a toaster brained world (READ IT, IT WILL GIVE YOU INSIGHT). It’s not easy for Brooke…ever. Society though makes an effort to include her in their world, to accommodate her, and for that I am extremely grateful. But my point is that we work very hard to make sure that she is returning the favor of accommodation by trying to do the same.
What accommodation has Marty made? What has he done on his part to make things easier for the situation?
My brilliant and sensitive wife has pointed out to me that there are many reasons why people gain weight…they can range from psychological issues to side effects of taking a life saving drug. She gave me the example of a child with autism who might take certain medications that resolve some behavioral issues, but suppress any appetite control.
That is something to consider. Still, I don’t demand that our favorite restaurant create a sound-proof environment to accommodate my little one’s sound integration issues.
We don’t always know what is behind the weight, however, skimming through a plethora of articles about this lawsuit, I was not able to find one mention of anything other than the fact that Martin Kessman ate White Castle several times a week and was morbidly obese.
If it does in fact come out that there are strong psychological issues involved, I owe him an apology. However, I still have to wonder why Kessman (and his lawyers) couldn’t find another solution other than to demand that White Castle spend millions of dollars simply to remodel the restaurant to accommodate his size. There are long-term consequences to enlarging every booth, which includes reduced seating capacity and therefore financial loss.
It will be interesting to see what comes out of this.
I also have to wonder, if they renovate to accommodate heftier customers, how much space is enough space? There are, without a doubt, White Castle lovers that are much larger than Kessman.
As a former obese person, I’ll say that no reason he is fat justifies suing the restaurant. None.
Yeah, there are sometimes medical/psychological reasons at play that keep you from having a perfect body. They can even justify being overweight. Unless there was an injury that confined him to immobility for a few years that he’s not telling us about, you only land at “rearrange furniture” obese from too many trips to White Castle and not enough trips to the gym.
WOW! I cannot believe I am reading this but this is the world we are living in! Disgusting! He can sit like a normal person! He just need do something about that fat belly!!! People with real disabilities may not be able to do anything about it but he can! ugh!
Amen Luau!
Nice article Luau, we were over visiting the states when this story broke and I had to laugh. You make a few very good points, especially the last sentence!! 🙂
I agree with Yvette. He has zero reason for suing.
If he has outgrown his restaurant of choice he can
1. find a different restaurant with bigger seating
or
2. stop eating so much darned junk!
When I was too big for seatbelts I didn’t consider suing Honda. I’m so sick of people not taking any personal responsibility.