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I have a friend. I have only met him in the real world once. He was a large part of why I was able to qualify for Boston back in October of last year – we carried each other for 15 miles. On that day he missed qualifying for Boston by seconds. As joyful as my day was, it was devastating to see him just miss his goal.
Instead of folding up his tent and going home, my friend doubled-down and trained even harder for his next marathon, which took place in May in Pittsburgh. His training was epic to say the least. To put it in perspective, I just passed 1200 running miles for 2011 last night. As of 9 days ago, my friend had logged nearly 1800 miles.
He was a man possessed, and when he crossed the finish line in May, he WAS a Boston Qualifier.
I know the feeling – the joy, the wave of emotion, the satisfaction…the “what now?”
That’s right. I recently read in his final post on dailymile that he was “taking a break” from the social network to find his passion for running again. Boy, do I know that feeling. I was fortunate enough to have the New York City Marathon line up just 5 weeks after my BQ and then Boston 2011 5 months after that to keep me focused on my training, but after Boston I simply lost “it”.
I was rudderless. I tried to re-focus my energy by signing up for another marathon, but in the end, I just didn’t have the same drive I had had when I was focused on qualifying for Boston.
Truth be told, I am still wandering, attempting to kick start myself again and again, but I do see signs of my focus coming back. It’s taken my 4 months, but it’s starting to come together again.
I hope my friend doesn’t stay away too long.
His departure will send ripples throughout the dailymile community and will be felt by all. He always had an inspirational word for his friends and his workouts were worth emulating.
I hope you find your passion again Brendan. You are an inspiration to many and proof that hard work pays off. You motivated people not by your words but by your actions. Enjoy your break – I hope to see you on the ‘mile in October when we both start training again for Boston 2012.